Erotic Massage Review Etiquette
Writing a review after an erotic massage, milking table session, or sensual body rub can be a wonderful way to support your provider, but only if you do it right and with the consent of the provider.
Too often, reviews in adult spaces slide into creepy, invasive, or downright disrespectful territory. Let’s change that. This blog post isn’t about silencing feedback, it’s about teaching basic review etiquette in an industry where privacy and safety matter just as much as pleasure.
Respect your providers Boundaries
Before you ever type a single word, know where your reviews are welcome and where they’re not. Not every provider wants reviews regardless if they are positive or negative.
For me personally, I have a very strict “No Reviews” policy on the following websites:
- Punter Planet
- Aus99
- The Naked Truth
Posting about me on those platforms is a HARD no and will result in a permanent ban from booking me again. These sites may claim to “help punters”, but in practice they foster invasive foul commentary, entitlement, and unsafe exposure including privacy breaches, doxxing and hate towards sex workers. I personally feel very unsafe being discussed in these spaces. Punter Planet recently introduced Delisting on the forum which means I have asked to be put on the “No Reviews and No discussion” list as of November 2025 and I plan on keeping it that way.
Where You Can Leave a Review
I am always grateful for positive reviews. However for me, it’s about keeping my work safe, professional and private. I always love feedback whether it be positive, neutral or negative. It means I can work on improving my business for the better and so clients walk in with realistic expectations of what I am like within a session.
If you’d like to leave feedback, I encourage it! Just do it in my approved places:
- Google Reviews
- Ivy Societe
- Scarlet Blue
- NaughtyAds
Or, you can email me your thoughts directly. I love to feature client feedback on my website. I’m open to honest reviews (even the critical ones), as long as they’re respectful, truthful, and not defamatory or a violation of my privacy.
Here’ how to write a Respectful Erotic Massage Review:
1. Focus on the Experience, Not the Explicit Details
Erotic massage and milking table sessions are sensual, yes. However, describing every body part or action in graphic detail doesn’t make you sound experienced, just wildly inappropriate. Focus on the energy, connection, environment, and professionalism.
2. Respect Privacy
Never share identifying details, not my real name, location specifics, or anything personal you might have noticed. This includes not mentioning the details of the street, the colour of the apartment. You can note basic stuff like the cleanliness of the apartment. Please keep it professional and demonstrate good will by not writing down private information
3. Avoid Entitlement
A review isn’t your personal fantasy journal. Don’t comment on what I “didn’t do” or compare me to others. I offer an experience, not menu items. Sometimes a session cannot fit everything on my checklist. But, if you do want to do certain things. You should tell me in advance or at the start of a session so I can ensure we get to that.
4. Be Honest, Not Harmful
You can absolutely give constructive feedback. Just make sure it’s fair and not written out of frustration, ego, or intoxication. Ask yourself: Could I say this to her face, respectfully?
5. Mind Your Language
Avoid objectifying or crude descriptions. “The session was grounding and sensual” is worlds better than “she’s hot, nice pussy and gives great service.” The goal is to help other clients understand what makes the experience valuable, not to perform locker-room commentary.
Why This Matters
The erotic massage and body rub industry relies on trust, discretion, and professionalism. Good reviews help providers grow their business. Badly written or misplaced ones can endanger safety, affect mental health, and attract the wrong attention. Details of reviews can also be brought up in court if a sex worker works in a criminalised state. This means you absolutely need to be conscientious about writing reviews about marginalised and often criminalised workers.
When clients take a few extra minutes to think before they post, it builds a culture of respect. You get a better experience next time, and I get to keep providing safe, sensual and professional sessions.
So, if you loved your time on the milking table and want to share your appreciation, thank you. Just remember: there’s a right way to do it. Be kind. Be smart. Don’t be a shit cunt about it.
